Category: Mind & Behavior

This simple little reframe is a nice mantra to stick to, especially in a club or bar. As you look around at the guys doing their best to be wallflowers (there’s always some, often there’s a lot) and at the women with their sexiness cranked up all the way to the nineties, repeat to yourself…

Did you ever hear about the seduction coach who said most of your time with a woman will be spent making her feel comfortable enough to go home with you. He actually called it “the comfort phase”. Thankfully, the seduction community successfully torpedoes sloppy ideas like that as more and more guys have success doing…

And What You Think Is Risky, Isn’t! This past weekend I had a social meeting with a seduction community guy who was a student when I was invited to teach at a European bootcamp. I always get a buzz out of coaching. And, as an observer of human nature and performance, it’s interesting to see who’s…

This sums up direct game pretty damn well. Not surprising because this explanation of driect game comes from Badboy who was probably the pioneer of this style of seduction. Enjoy… Here’s Badboy’s guide to direct game: I’m tired of looking at those so-called gooroos and other new kids on the block teaching direct game. It’s sad…

I was doing my thing at a Badboy Lifestyle bootcamp a couple years back when I heard a not unfamiliar story. A student said he had such strong alpha shit that he could walk out into traffic and it would stop. A year or two before, I was in a bar with a friend. He’d been…

I’ve asked a lot of guys a lot of their challenges about seduction. And I’ve gotten a lot of feedback about what seduction means to them. Here are just a few bullet points of some of the main takeaways: Everyone can build the skills that improve success with women. The way you feel about yourself…

Howdy, it’s Ben T. here. Just thought I’d kick off the seduction tips with a solid piece of advice of my own. It’s a big one for overall success, including success with women. Here goes… If something’s worth doing, it’s worth doing right. Period. My whole life I’ve been taught that if something’s worth doing,…